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Before you decide, get aligned.

Nikky

Before you decide, get aligned.

I have had many conversations about the most effective way of deciding a particular course of action. If you want to leverage the Law of Attraction a general rule is that you should choose a path that feels right. And if you have already decided, that you will choose a certain path then it is your responsibility to get aligned and become a match to what you have decided and the outcome that you desire. For example, if you have decided to live in a certain suburb, then you hav

You are the creator of your own life.

Nikky

You are the creator of your own life.

Too many times I see people living a life that they are not enjoying. And most people think that these not so nice circumstances are happening to them. But deliberate creators know that we have the power to create our own life. So I invite you to take a closer look at your life. What are the pain points that you are experiencing? Now take a closer look at what your thoughts, feelings and beliefs are about that area of your life. Dig deeper and get to know what thoughts domina

Ten ways using the Law of Attraction changed my life

Nikky

Ten ways using the Law of Attraction changed my life

I learnt about the Law of Attraction about 10 years ago and I have to tell you that my life has changed dramatically since I started applying the principles of the law of Attraction in my daily life, in my thoughts, point of focus and in my actions. Here are some of the ways that my life has changed from what it was before I became aware of the Law of Attraction. I am infinitely more happier. You see I now know that all I have to do is focus on what pleases me, think about wh

Note to self and maybe you.....

Nikky

Note to self and maybe you.....

I have a message for you. This is in part a reminder to me and in part a guide for you to create the life you desire. You will not get what you want if you are not feeling good currently. You will not manifest your desires if you continue to feel frustrated and stressed. Your luck will not change if you are feeling down in the dumps. This is the Law of Attraction. It is always in play. So once you have had your meltdown. Choose to feel good now and then watch your luck change

Make peace with now to create change

Nikky

Make peace with now to create change

I know that this statement is contrary to everything you have ever learned about bringing change in your life circumstances. But if you understand energy at all and if you want to leverage on the Law of Attraction to bring about fast changes in your life you will know that holding on to resistance for your present circumstances will only hold back everything that you want. So if you want to lose weight, but if all you do is focus on how much weight you have gained, then that

What came first ? Your reality or your story.

Nikky Dhillon

What came first ? Your reality or your story.

Recently, I have had some very interesting conversations with people who have shared their life experiences with me. Interestingly, their experiences in the same situation were very different to ours. ( My husband and mine) As deliberate creators, we know that, what we believe to be true, what we pay attention to and what we share as our story or a narrative of what we call facts is ALWAYS a match to what we will experience in our reality. Yet, most of us don't learn about th

Law of Attraction 101

Nikky

Law of Attraction 101

Whether you are new to the Law of Attraction or you are a seasoned deliberate creator of your life, the following fundamentals of the Law of Attraction are good reminders to keep you on top of your game. Some of these fundamentals are so different from the way we are conditioned and raised in our society that you will stand out for having such beliefs. But when your life is mostly going well, when you always appear to be at the right place, at the right time and when the very

When reality doesn't match what you had intended

Nikky

When reality doesn't match what you had intended

I have a story to share with you. Recently, when my husband and I went to France for the first time, we experienced the Law of Attraction at play at many points during our holiday. One such experience was when we went to see the Chateau Versailles on the outskirts of Paris. We had heard a lot about this Palace as it is now called and wanted to have the experience of a guided tour of the Palace so we could learn more about it's history, stories and relevance. Unfortunately, we

Law of Attraction 101

Nikky

Law of Attraction 101

Here is a quick reminder for you to get your manifesting game on. Firstly, get clear with what you want to create and why. We are so accustomed to focusing on what we don't like about our lives that we don't even pay any attention on the reality we do want to experience. Once you get clear with what you want to manifest, add energy to your desire by having a consistent practice that resonates with you like a meditation practice, visualization, scripting or Pray rain journal.

A powerful manifesting process - Visualization

Nikky

A powerful manifesting process - Visualization

Today, I want to share with you what I have come to experience as a powerful manifesting practice. I am referring to Visualization or as most deliberate creators call it creative visualization. Last year I started to feel the itch to move to a bigger better home for our family. I discussed it with my husband and we decided that maybe in a couple of years we could think of moving. We live in a beautiful unit with water views. And have been living there for more than 7 years as

Seeing your kids from the perspective of your inner being

Nikky

Seeing your kids from the perspective of your inner being

Being a creator of my own life experience I am extremely conscious of how I show up for my kids. That doesn't mean I am perfect and I always view them from the same perspective as my inner being. Infact recently my son had to remind me of my misaligned way of dealing with my younger daughters sickness. My 4 year old had been home for a few days because of having the pink eye. On top of that she developed a nasty cough that was keeping her and me up at night. There was a lot o

You can have everything you ever wished for

Nikky

You can have everything you ever wished for

You deserve to receive everything you ever wanted in your life. All the good stuff you ever prayed for or wished for is waiting to show up in your life. But here is the catch, all those experiences that you desire, all the physical stuff that you want and all the money that you wish you had holds a certain vibration. That vibration has specific emotions attached to it. Usually all that stuff represents feelings like freedom, happiness, excitement and appreciation. As a delibe

4 things you can do now to attract what you want.

Nikky

4 things you can do now to attract what you want.

At some point or another in our lives we are challenged by the circumstances that surround us. Be it a tough job that is sucking the energy out of you or a long term relationship that is falling apart or when you are neck deep in debt with no way to get out of it. It is during times of such contrast that you can really use the Law of Attraction to get you out of whatever you feel you are stuck in. So here is a small refresher on what is deliberate creation. Deliberate creatio

How I teach my kids about the Law of attraction ?

Nikky

How I teach my kids about the Law of attraction ?

As a mum, I have the most amazing opportunity to teach my kids about the Law of Attraction and how to leverage their own energy to attract what they desire and to activate happiness for themselves in the present moment. I want to share with you some of these tips and techniques in the hope that it encourages you to teach and guide your kids to get comfortable with deliberate creation as well. So my son has known the basics of the Law of Attraction for a few years now. He und

Let's get ready for 2017

Nikky

Let's get ready for 2017

We are at the end of 2016 and what a year it has been for me and perhaps for you. This year I shared with you all what I have learnt and applied in my life to create a life filled with harmony, love and abundance. What I share here at my online home is a way of living that puts you in the drivers seat. It empowers you to live your best life year after year. It empowers you to learn from the setbacks, pick yourself up and rise higher than you have in the past. And hopefully my

How I made peace with my past

Nikky

How I made peace with my past

In the last 15 years of my personal development, I have spent a lot of time and energy healing myself from my past trauma and as part of that a few years ago I decided to let my father off the hook and make peace with him. My parents had a tough marriage and when I was in my teens my father had had it and one day he just left. He left my mum, my younger sister and me without a place to live as we were just temporarily renting and no financial support whatsoever. My mother wh

To do or not to !

Nikky

To do or not to !

As deliberate creators, we understand that “alignment trumps everything” Alignment means your vibrations ( in the form of thoughts and feelings) are a match to your desires and wants. So in other words you are able to think and feel as if what you desire is already here - Its a done deal ! Now back to “ Alignment trumps everything” and that includes any action. What this means is if you take action without alignment, then its a waste of your energy and time. So what does acti

8 ways executives can use Law of Attraction to make their work life more harmonious

Nikky

8 ways executives can use Law of Attraction to make their work life more harmonious

Statistics show that people spend 50 % of their total waking hours during any given work day at their job or work. That is a lot of time in your life that you spend at work. So basically how you feel at work directly determines the quality of your life . Most people work as a means to an end. The goal being to earn an income and save money to do the things that make them happy. If you are one of the lucky few that work in a role that you love and in an environment that is con

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