Happy days coaching

I have had many conversations about the most effective way of deciding a particular course of action. If you want to leverage the Law of Attraction a general rule is that you should choose a path that feels right. And if you have already decided, that you will choose a certain path then it is your responsibility to get aligned and become a match to what you have decided and the outcome that you desire. For example, if you have decided to live in a certain suburb, then you hav

From the time we are very little we observe our environment and learn that we ought to make decisions and live our lives based on a fear of something imagined and unwanted happening in either our near or distant future. As an example, we are told to Study so that we don't fail - Failing becomes fearful for us Have good manners so that we can please other people - We develop a fear of displeasing others Make friends so that we are not left alone at school during recess - We de

It's a new year. And it gives you another reason to reduce or eliminate toleration's in your life. Sometimes we tolerate because we don't know how to fix boundaries that clearly let the people in our lives know how we would like to be treated. Sometimes we tolerate because we have a limiting belief that stating how we would like to be treated would hurt the ones who we love or upset the ones we are accountable to like our bosses. And sometimes we tolerate because deep down we

One of my core values is being Authentic. As part of my coach training, we were asked to list down our values. While doing that exercise I realized most of the values that I listed were those that I had acquired as an adult and as a deliberate creator. Not as a child following instructions given by my parents, society, teachers and the world at large. In fact my values at present are very different to the ones that were taught to me as a child. And one of those values, is bei

We all come across moments in our life when we have to make important decisions that could impact our life and relationships. Some of those decisions could be when you are at cross roads and you have two or more options in front of you. Like when you have two job offers in front of you and you are finding it difficult to decide which one is best for you. And some of those decisions are quick ones where you decide to act in a certain way. Like when you have had it with your bo